
Baby Communication Awareness Week Day 1
14 – 20th June 2021
After months of waiting, preparation and imagining, meeting a new baby unlocks an unexpected set of physiological, sensory and behavioural responses that parents can never fully anticipate. Many of these responses are mammalian traits, such as checking and exploring the newborn all over. Others come from the baby, like the magical moment of greeting, when a newborn turns towards parentsโ faces, usually the mother, but more and more often, the father too.

Even when the wondrous cocktail of birth hormones is modified by interventions, the first few hours can be an intense time of mutual discovery in which the baby is taking an active part. Newborn crawl, the programmed self-propelling of newborns to their mothersโ breasts by pushing surprisingly strongly with their tiny feet, includes pauses to check the contours of mothersโ faces. Itโs not just about foodโฆ In fact, many newborns are first interested in feeling contact through touch and gaze. If there is a delay, the process is resumed later, when possible. Klaus and Klausโ book โYour Amazing Newbornโ (1999) popularised newbornsโ talents as innate communicators of love just as much of need. It reassured parents that love at first sight is rare, but that learning to observe and respond to their babies invariably creates love.
In cultures where souls are given great importance, the hours following birth require special closeness and protection to ensure babiesโ safety. Amazonian indigenous mothers and fathers watch over their newborns together in their hammocks as they are fed and watched by relatives. This is to ensure that both parents and babies can live this transition as โreal human beingsโ, attuning each other to the sensory and social cues that create a โnewborn familyโ.
With the ritualised practice of โskin to skinโ contact after birth, particularly as babies are placed on fathersโ chests, newborns are given the comfort they need to reach out to those who hold them. But are we still missing important details? Light, timing,how to be quietly present? Are these missed even in home births? Alerting new parents to the primary importance of communication for their newborns in the first hours after birth is perhaps one of the main messages that an effective birth education needs to convey.

Franรงoise Freedman
Founder & Director of Birthlight
Franรงoise is a pioneer, Senior Yoga Teacher, acclaimed writer and lecturer of Social Anthropology at the University of Cambridge.ย